!!! its so littttttleee!!!!
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie (NPR)
This is another reason that gay sex is better. You don’t loose anything and you get a card, sometimes even a gold star!
Queer lady movie night, 7:00 tonight, at the LGBT Center of Raleigh with 2 riot grrrl documentary shorts
that one time i got in a fist fight at a bar with a cis dude who was pissed i was in the men’s restrooms and called me a dyke whore while simultaneously whipping his dick out and trying to pee on me
but homophobia can’t happen in san francisco, right?
^ 100% correct response. Also I really hope his dick was still out when he got punched. And also I hope he got punhed in the dick.
It really fucking sucks to watch a cute butch put a shit ton of effort into a relationship with a femme who still has some 1950s bullshit heteronormative concept of femininity or of how a relationship should be. In general, it’s just really shitty to see someone that deserves to be treated well, someone that you would treat well, being treated like shit because they don’t live up to whatever fucked up notion of masculinity someone assigns to them because they’re butch. What sucks even more is knowing that this person could never see you as anything but the dykey friend because you refuse to play the damsel in distress; because for some reason, they still cling to that butch-femme dynamic, as if it’s the only way that it could ever make sense for two women to be together. And you’re just left to play the part of the supportive friend, listening to them bitch about the princess treating them like shit and left to go to sleep at night thinking about how unfair it is that others get to have these amazing people in their lives and then take them for granted. It also kinda makes you wonder how in the fuck these people end up in relationships while you remain perpetually single; how in the fuck they get to go to sleep next to a living, breathing, awesome human being while you fall asleep every night wedged between two snoring dogs.
I really want a roving gang of queer friends but whenever I get one I just end up wanting to fuck them.